From Nancy Campbell’s The Power of Motherhood, pg 34
The Best!
With all the gadgets and labor-saving devices on the market for babies nowadays, I thought I’d try to find the best of each. I was not surprised to find that:
The BEST infant seat is mother’s arms.
The BEST baby swing is mother’s lap in a rocking chair.
The BEST stroller is mother’s body.
The BEST nursery record is mother’s own heartbeat.
The BEST lullaby is mother’s singing, and of course,
The BEST pacifier, electric warmer, and tranquilizer can be found at the mother’s breast.
By Sally Simmons, Nebraska
So why do we resist to give our children ourselves? I certainly resist. Why does a baby swing sound so much better to me than using my lap? Because I have better things to do! Like blogging about what a great mother I am . . .
Now to be sure, there are many things that need to be done. I certainly cannot sit in the nursery all day and rock the baby. But I must be real and confess that my first prefrence is to do the task, not rock the baby. My priorities and loves are inordinate and mixed up. Sin has tousled this mother’s heart and made it all backwards. It is a daily battle, a constant spiritual war, to reorient my heart according to God’s priorities. It is a daily struggle to let the Holy Spirit have His way in me.
Sadly, it is my need and now my prayer for the Lord to attach my heart to my child’s; to remove all sin and fear and let my heart be knit so intimately freely to another. What a vulnerable calling we CEM’s have been given! Constant vulnerability and sacrifice, yet in surrender to this calling we find out Lord. We lose our life and find Him.
One of my favorite songs this week is Jesus, Lover of My Soul. If I did not have these precious, sweet and tender trials of motherhood, demands to liberally love others, I would have no real or deep idea of what it means to long for the Lord to “let me to thy bosom fly.”
A final note ~ In regards to breastfeeding, I must confess that though I am really very open to nursing in comparison with the average American woman, still I struggle with a prudishness that our culture seems to harbor. We are so sexually liberated in vulgar ways but when it comes to the tender nurture of breastfeeding all the sudden we are utterly prude. A verse like Isaiah 66:10-13 seems awkward and uncomfortable. Oh Lord, heal our broken, broken lives.
“Rejoice with Jerusalem and be glad for her,
all you who love her;
rejoice greatly with her,
all you who mourn over her.
11 For you will nurse and be satisfied
at her comforting breasts;
you will drink deeply
and delight in her overflowing abundance.”
12 For this is what the LORD says:
“I will extend peace to her like a river,
and the wealth of nations like a flooding stream;
you will nurse and be carried on her arm
and dandled on her knees.
13 As a mother comforts her child,
so will I comfort you;
and you will be comforted over Jerusalem.”