I may be the only mom starting home schooling right now, but I am having such fun, I can’t wait for September (or August in these lone star parts) for no apparent reason. In fact, it seems the most ridiculous thing that our Texas schools end in early May, when it still isn’t too hot, and start back up again in the absolute, abject misery of August, just when the huge, inefficient school buildings take the most energy to air condition. But I digress . . . .
A friend loaned me her copy of Five in a Row, and I just love it! Love it, love it. It fits perfectly with my personality and teaching style. All I need is a central theme and daily task to keep me going somewhere and from that center point, I could go a thousand directions. That is my joy in learning and teaching; how one little story about a duck can teach us about China, drawing water, buoyancy, reflection . . . . etc. My eldest is completely ready and loves every minute of it, so why not go with the momentum while we have it?
I am attempting to set up two times for schooling during the day. Nothing complicated or terribly ridged, but just an endeavor to build the habit of school into our day so that it is not something random and questionable, but expected and purposeful. Baby Ella naps twice a day and will continue in that pattern for many more months. So during her first nap yesterday, I pulled out a blanket, our rhythm sticks and some flashcards. Giving each girl a pair of sticks we tapped in time singing, “It’s time to play school today, school today, school today! It’s time to play school today at our little home!” They do this song at their gym class every time they transition activities and my girls love it for some reason. It usually works like a charm at home too.
So we all sat on our blanket (this is a great way to define a space and keep them there for an activity) and played flashcards. I have a box full of them from random sources. I would hold up a card and the first one to identify it got to have it. They loved making stacks and arrangements of their prized cards. Fortunately, the oldest didn’t try to beat out the younger every time. She really is such a sweet girl! We played this as long as we could, reviewing colors, letters, numbers and animals, until little tot lost her interest. Then we read a book.
After that the sticks helped us sing that it was time to put the cards away and that it was time to draw today. I helped Elise learn how to draw water while Audrey was praised for her wide use of color. She draws in these tight little focused scribbles. It is so funny! She will bend down very close to the paper and scribble back and forth in little splotches, then come up from the paper with a proud “See!”
As long as they wanted to color, I went about a few household tasks until the baby woke up. Later in the afternoon, when both little ones nap, I worked with Elise on more FIAR activities. We learned about China; how to find it on the map, what they eat, what they wear . . . etc . . . and we started a little notebook for vocabulary, drawings, etc . . . Then I gave her a few worksheets for handwriting to do while I exercised.
I have also really been working to train Elise to help with dinner and set the table every day. There really are SO many things you can invent for your child to help do in the kitchen. Even Audrey is now helping, at 2, wash dishes while I clean up lunch or dinner. She doesn’t accomplish too much, but she is kept busy and happy and feels involved. For my birthday, my m-i-l gave me a big set of matching plastic dishes for summer fun. I moved all the plastic dishes to a bottom cupboard so that both girls can help put away. I let Elise organize it as she liked. That was too fun for her. That little apple did not fall far from the tree.
Elise loves to set the table. I try to help her take pride in how it looks, allowing her to choose which plates and cups will match the tablecloth, etc. . . . The past few weeks have been so, so, so much better as I try to include my children in my tasks rather than dispose of them so that I “can do my thing”.
We shall see if the schooling keeps up this week! It is summer, after all . . .